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You Didn’t Fail

Posted on 26/06/2012

– Written by Billy

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

This is an excerpt from one of President Theodore Roosevelt’s most famous speeches titled “Citizenship in a Republic.”  Since the first time that I’ve read this quote, I’ve made it a priority to apply these words, popularly known today as “The Man in the Arena,” in all aspects of my life.  I recently thought about these words again after watching Balitmore Ravens’ head coach, John Harbaugh, passionately recite these words after a big victory.  Although Coach Harbaugh was joking in reciting this quote, no one can ignore how powerful these words really are.

There comes a time when we have to put fear, hesitation, doubt, and distractions aside to pursue a goal.  To step out and start at a goal may appear to be daunting at first, but we have to see the benefits in taking the initiative to push forward to make a goal a reality.

You might succeed.  Hey, you might even do better than you ever imagined.  Alternatively, there may be times where you will not achieve what was planned.  But this is not failure.

Rather among so many other valuable accomplishments,

  1. You learned something about yourself;
  2. You opened doors to new opportunities;
  3. You did not let life pass you by;
  4. You built character;
  5. You overcame insecurity, fear, and doubt;
  6. You might have helped someone along the way;
  7. You probably even inspired someone;
  8. You might have met someone who could help you purse the next goal.

No matter the outcome, you have so much more to offer than those who chose to sit on the sidelines.  There’s so much to gain and learn, but you have to be active to find anything of significant value.

Ruth and Boaz – Part 2

Posted on 26/06/2012

– Written by Dee

As mentioned before, Boaz was a man worth waiting for… Especially for Ruth. To have experienced such a loss and to have traveled such a distance and finally meet a man like Boaz, was nothing short of a divine hand on Ruth’s life. Today, I want to focus on Ruth. In order for her to be prepared to receive someone like Boaz, she had to be at the right place at the right time.

We all make a list of attributes we want for our Boaz, but what about what we want for ourselves? Boaz was just a man living life without pretense, serving God and serving his people… until Ruth came along. He still served God and served his people but he took notice of one woman in his field, working diligently. See, the amazing fact about Ruth is that she didn’t even know who Boaz was until he approached her. She didn’t go to his field, searching for him. He found her.

I find it incredible that this woman had no clue what Boaz would come to mean for her and her mother-in-law, how he would change her life the way he did. She was too busy serving her new God and her mother-in-law. I believe as a new convert to the faith, she was overwhelmed with joy and peace to be in the same family as her mother-in-law, after desperately saying that she would go anywhere with Naomi, even if death was the end for her. Instead, she found a new life and the peace that comes from serving the Living God. She hit the ground running, finding work to provide for those important to her.

Naomi was her mother and she wanted to do all she could to make Naomi happy. She was by no means looking for a man or a distraction. In her selfless, undistracted way, Ruth fell upon a new opportunity. An open field full of them!

Was Boaz handsome and charming? Who knows if he was a mature tall man with broad shoulders and a resonating deep voice… or whether he was a kind, old man with gentle eyes that held onto the cords of her heart. It doesn’t even say that Ruth fell for Boaz immediately. In fact, Naomi probably planted the seeds of romance in Ruth’s heart, prodding her to go meet Boaz… It doesn’t mention that Ruth wanted to be married again after having lost her first husband.

What it does say is that Boaz knew her to be a woman of excellence (Ruth 3:11) and he took Ruth to be his wife (Ruth 4:13). Okay, so maybe it’s not the ideal romance where the man sweeps the woman off her feet and gives her a resounding kiss that leaves her breathless and her head spinning. Maybe Boaz didn’t exactly take several months to court her till she blushed pink or giggle like a little schoolgirl as he chased her across his fields. Sometimes I wonder why in some stories in the Bible, the romance is clear for Jacob and Rachel, Adam and Eve, Esther and King Xerxes, and on the other hand, Ruth and Boaz don’t get an overt romantic tale. Then I realize that it doesn’t really matter… Ruth found her happily-ever after with Boaz, in whatever capacity that was.

Some of us don’t necessarily believe in the happily-ever after, or maybe subconsciously we do but life makes it hard to trust it exists. In God’s divine plan, Ruth and Boaz begat Obed, the father of Jesse, the father of King David. In God’s plan, some of us might feel like there is no partner to beget anyone… maybe you’re right to think this way. Yet for those still holding on to your version of the Standard, how about first focusing on you serving God and man? Live selflessly, love unconditionally and live without pretense. Your Boaz might just be around the corner.

In whatever state you’re in, waiting or living, do it all for God. In fact, suspend your list and focus your attention on Him. He’s faithful to give you the desires he’s planted in you to have.

Let me know what you think? Share your thoughts.

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